Saturday, January 27, 2007

Grandma's Butter and The Mole

Saturday morning breakfasts, like the one I just had, are a little special for me. It's when I take my time and make myself a leisurely breakfast at home. Best of all, it's my time to savor my yummy scrambled eggs. I really do think, that the best scrambled eggs I've EVER had, are the ones I make.

If you think that scrambled eggs are merely attempted omelette gone wrong, then hurriedly chopped up with a frying slice...well, you HAVEN'T had scrambled eggs then my friend!

Scrambling eggs is an art. The perfect scrambled eggs are smooth, creamy and melt in your mouth. Sprinkle sea salt or little pearls of roe on top and you've got a gourmet dish.

The trick to making perfect scrambled eggs is a very very very low, miniscule fire. Many cooks (especially and UNFORTUNATELY many line cooks in diners, hotels and cafes!) MISTAKENLY think that scrambled eggs are to be cooked hurriedly....resulting in hard yellow blobs that are often...well...chewy! Yeeeeucccch!

Perfect scrambled eggs are softly simmered and lovingly coaxed into thickening with a wooden spoon. Be patient. It may seem like a long time....but the eggs WILL start to thicken. :)

Well, today, I decided to have a slice of buttered wholemeal toast as well.
It's funny, but spreading butter on bread always reminds me of Mama (my Mum's mother). Mama died in 1992....just one day after I sat for my last A-level exam paper. (I'll always remember that). She was the only grandma I ever really knew growing up, because Mama Mary (my Dad's mum), passed away when I was 3 years old.

Even though it's been 14 years since she died, my memories of Mama are still so vivid. The way she would hug me, how she has a special way of taking a breath of you when she kissed you on your cheek.... how she'd eat her curry with black soya sauce (a habit I picked up and something everyone else thinks is strange!). Here's a lovely old photograph of Mama and Kong Kong when they were newlyweds.

Well butter reminds me so much of Mama. Because all those years ago, it was very unfashionable, and thought of as unhealthy, to eat butter. So in our home, we had only margerine. Whereas, in Mama's place, she ALWAYS had butter with her bread (French loaf was her favourite...and mine too). I still remember how it was kept....in this blue butter dish with a cover...and I thought it was so original and special because we didn't use a butter dish at home. Margerine comes in a white plastic tub!!

Now thinking back, I remember eating butter on Roti Francis at Mama's place was such a treat.... and thinking how much yummier it tasted than margerine. I think for the ENTIRE year of school in Primary One, I had jam and margerine sandwiches (brought from home) for recess.

Funny how we have memories we didn't even know we had.

THE MOLE

Got an email from Victric yesterday about his latest short film, The Mole. You can view it here:


http://www.digitalfilmfiesta.com/Video_TheMole.htm

I must say that my jaw dropped when I saw it! It's SO GOOD! Very whimsical, quirky yet sad. Think Tim Burton, Melancholy Oyster Boy, Edward Scissorhands....
It was so good that I called Wee Keong immediately raving about it, screaming that he should watch it right away....hehehhehhe... :)

I so admire people who have the tenacity and vision to make good films. Yeah everyone out there wants to call themselves a short filmmaker. But they can't even write a decent story or hire actors who can actually act. It really takes A LOT of work and effort and planning to make a decent film. So 3 cheers for Vic's new film!

Thursday, January 25, 2007

Jesus n Church - AIN'T THE SAME THING!

This is my friend Hal who was in Singapore last week, en route from Bali to the US.

I've known Hal for...what....17 years now. The first thing I said to him was, "Are U the boy from the Coca-Cola ad??" (Way back then, I had an enormous crush on the Coke boy....U know...the cute kid in the ad that goes.... "I'd like to teach the world to sing, in perfect harmony....")

Anyways, back to my friend Hal.

Hal is a happy man who lives in a very happy city called San Francisco - also happily married to another happy bloke, Jonathan. They had a beautiful wedding with lots and lots of lovely FLOWERS. SPEAKING OF FLOWERS......... it seems that I can't have ANY IN CHURCH FOR MY WEDDING!!! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sob sob sob sob!! (Mad Bride Disease strikes again)

And all because of a major dumbass rule which I've NEVER heard of until a few days ago. Apparently, 10 March 2007 falls during the season of LENT. And apparently, the powers that be (or maybe just this church) decree that the church can't be decorated with blooms! When I spoke to the chruch florist she said she'd use just LEAVES!!!

WTF WTF WTF WTF WTF!?!??!!?????!??!? I'M SURE JESUS LOVED FLOWERS! Being the hippy, one with nature kinda dude that he was.

Which just goes to show folks.....JESUS AND CHURCH really aren't ONE. Hey.....the guy was JEWISH to begin with! Ever thought about that? (Am reading this great book now by Kahil Gibran called "Jesus The Son of Man." The book gives really interesting perspectives to Jesus life on earth as a Man....weaknesses, desires, popularity etc...he was human after all. An ordinary Joe who grew into a cult figure....

Anyways, I am SO MAJORLY bummed by this whole lack of flowers for my wedding. Cos anyone who knows me, knows about my love affair with flowers.

I snapped these beauties in Kashmir...phwoarrrrrr...blooming marvelous!



My sweet old Dad (always wanting to make me happy) gallantly offered to sneak into the church just 2 hours before the wedding to stealthily place lots of flowers inside and tie them to the pews. He said it quite seriously and with a straight face!

Awwww Dad....thanks......
Dad n me.....This is my favourite photo EVER of the 2 of us....you can see all the love and hope he has in his eyes... :')



Oh well.....when life gives U lemons.... Hmmmm.... maybe I could persuade the florist to use FRUIT as well. Apples, lemons, limes, oranges, grapes.....it would be pretty interesting to have!

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

He's the One :)



This is the man I'm to marry and I love him! I LOVE HIM!

I'm so lucky that JF understands my bouts of craziness and multiple neuroses! We can be so cheesy and geeky at the same time and I love it. (Like liking Bee Gees songs and dancing to Stevie Wonder.....hahahaahhaahah...)




He says the sweetest things like...... "Don't worry Poussin you will look so nice....I'll still marry you even if you wear a blue jean." (yeah right down to the cute way writing/speaking French-English....Franglish!)



So even though I may be going crazy preparing for the wedding....I know the the most important thing of all.... is that we found each other.

Ding dong the DAY is near!

While in Bhutan in January, JF & I decided to start a blog to write about our frequent travels to far flung places. He came up with the idea to start a Happy List.....listing down something everyday that made us happy.

Frankly, even though almost everyone I know blogs...from my overexcited new mum friends to tweeny cousins.......all this while, I've felt that blogs are a WASTE OF TIME. I mean....does everyone really need to know that you cut your toenails today?? Or that you hate onions?? WTF?!?!

Well amidst the growing madness of my wedding prep, I thought, OK let's give it a shot. Use this space to rant and rave. You see, my dear reader, I have become a victim of MAD BRIDE DISEASE!!!! ARRRRRGGGGH!

This ailment creeps slowly into your system the very second that you choose your wedding gown. Over the months, it sneakily overpowers your enitre being.....and as the day of your wedding draws nearer and nearer, U go crazy! Scream! Weep! Toss in bed and pull out your hair.....all over the minutest of details!

THE FAT BRIDE CONSPIRACY

Went for the 2nd final fitting of my wedding dress and evening gown on Sat. Our photoshoot is on 31 Jan, just one week away.

BTW this is the design I chose.

TO MY UTTER HORROR and DISMAY, the gowns were TIGHT!!!!! During the last fitting that I had in Dec, they were too loose and a lot had to be taken in. But I think they took in TOO MUCH!!

Yeah sure the dresses look fab when U are STANDING UP, but I tried to sit down and I COULDN'T BREATHE!!! GASP! (and turn blue). HOW could this happen??????? These are MADE TO MEASURE gowns, meaning, they are supposed to be tailored to FIT ME NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND! Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaccccccccckkkkks!

I asked Kenny (my designer) and Suzanne (bridal shop owner) to have them let out, but they said the dresses wouldn't look nice for the photoshoot if they were not VERY FITTING. They said they can let it out AFTER the photoshoot.

GEE GOLLY GOSH! That doesn't make sense at all! Too tight dress = can't breathe = can't smile for the camera = bad photos!

THIS IS WHERE THE FAT BRIDE CONSPIRACY COMES IN

I was wailing to my sis-in-law Wendy about my dress woes and she said "making the dress too tight is a stupid thing all bridal shops do" I was shocked!! She said when she went for her penultimate fitting, she couldn't ZIP up her gown! And this is a girl who is THIN!!! WAS THIS TRUE??? Why do they do this??

Curious, I asked 3 friends who had gotten married in the last 2 years.......and they all said the same thing! Dress was too tight during the fitting! I'm shocked!

I was secretly cursing myself for choosing those designs. Why oh why didn't I stick with the more forgiving empire line Marchessa gown which I chose originally???? If it was good enough for the Golden Globes it's good enough for me. Why oh why???

LESSON TO ALL BRIDES TO BE - CHOOSE A GOWN you will be COMFORTABLE IN! If I had time to re-do my dress I WOULD! But the wedding is just 45 days away!!

I've NEVER wanted to be one of those brides who worries and fusses about looking PERFECT on her wedding day. I really just want to have FUN and enjoy what is to be the happiest day of my life. In ALL the weddings I've EVER attended.....it is SO RARE to see a bride who doesn't look stressed out. Only 2 weddings I've been to had really happy brides.......Zerline on her wedding day....the clever girl chose a very pretty, bought off the rack, short n swingy empire line dress from Forever 21 for her evening wear! And she had so much fun!

The other bride was Hugues sis Adeline, in France. She had so much fun dancing and laughing, and everyone was very relaxed and had a blast!

Back to the wedding dress. I was also quite disappointed that it didn't turn out exactly as I envisioned. I chose this very simple design - a soft French lace with clean, simple lines, no big poufy skirt - BECAUSE I LOVED THE SCALLOP details. But it turns out that the bridal shop couldn't do the scallops!! WAAAAAAAAAAH I was SO disappointed!!! EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! MAD BRIDE DISEASE strikes again!